Do you think it's fair to demand romance before we have sex, every time?

Sometimes being romantic doesn't have to mean the whole wining and dining charade. Maybe it could just be telling her how beautiful she looks (even in the morning for those steamy quickies!), how much you love her etc. For me anyway, these little things can be more romantic than a posh meal. Even just giving her a nice massage can be romantic foreplay, and wouldn't take any planning or expense at all.