What is the best way to redo you wedding with you family in attendance?

My husband and I did a little quicky wedding here in texas with no family in attendance but his brother and sister in law (they live in the area). We had already start planning our wedding for june but I found out I was getting deployed in early spring so we decided that we knew we were gonna get married but didn't want to wait until 2012 so we got married in december when he came here on leave. Family is very important to me and I have always dreamed that they would be there on my big day. I know renewing the vows is completely different but since none of our family was they how can we make it special for them. Like its the first time we are getting married?